Although the photograph above is naturally focused on the couple in the foreground, it also suggests the fact of how during a relationship, our background – race, religion, wealth – should be blurred out, and instead, what should come into Focus is what’s staring right in front of us, our partner’s personality and attitude, their judgement of mind, their ability to see beneath faults and fragility, and of course their love for us. We cannot focus upon the weaknesses of one another and evoke strengths. You cannot focus upon the things that you think they are doing wrong, and evoke things that will make you feel better, but you are able to turn away, even just for a second, from the one mistake they did wrong, in order to embrace all the good they have done, because when you do, you’ll be a strong signal of influence that will help them to reconnect with who they are. If you do see yourself in one of these pictures and would like to take it down for personal reasons, please comment and I’ll be happy to do so.
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